It’s not our job to do it all. So why does the Internet keep telling women it’s ideal to try?

In July of 2012 in this publication, Anne Marie Slaughter wrote a piece that at the time, I suppose seemed somewhat controversial, but really just said out loud the things that I and most of my peers already knew. The title of the piece, “Why Women Still Can’t Have it All,” offered Slaughter’s reflections on the challenges of holding down a prime foreign policy position in Washington DC, while struggling to help her adolescent boys navigate difficult teenage years back at home in New Jersey. The…